Determining what you think is the best age to adopt a puppy when adopting can contribute so much to your adoption success.
Dog adoption has made owning a furbaby more available to everyone!
If you are thinking about adopting a dog, or what is the best age to adopt a puppy, you have probably thought about these questions:
“Should I get a puppy or should I rescue an older dog?”
“Do I need to get a puppy so I can form a better bond with him?”
“Is this the best time in my life to adopt a puppy?”
“Are my family members on board with me in adopting a puppy?”
“What dog age fits my lifestyle and my capacity to care for them?”
“Is my home ready to become a puppy home?”
“What is the best age to adopt considering my needs and my current situation?”
Asking these questions is important. A four-legged addition to your home is a significant responsibility and a life-changing move.
Making a decision of becoming a dog owner through adoption includes so much more than just handpicking the cutest dog in the shelter.
As a dog owner that has worked with thousands of puppy owners and their beloved pets, I can assure you that the experience of raising a dog becomes healthier and more meaningful if the owner knows exactly what they’re getting themselves into when they adopt a puppy or an older dog.
To help you make a more educated decision about getting a dog, I will go into the good, the bad, and the expectations for various age groups that come with dog adoption.
Read on to learn more!
- How to Find the Best Dog for Adoption
- Different Age Groups for Dogs to Consider
- Finding the Best Dogs to Fit Your Lifestyle
- The Various Dog Care Required Per Age
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3 Factors to Consider When Adopting Puppies and Older Dogs
After your love-at-first-sight moment at the pet store or puppy mill, and the rigorous paperwork, the reality of becoming an adoptive parent of a dog sets in.
Furparents who have bought my Puppy Coach program and the Dog Calming Code course collectively expressed surprise at the challenges that came right after they adopt a puppy. Some of the puppy and dog adoption sentiments I gathered through the years include:
“I never thought bigger puppies were so curious – just running and jumping all over the place!”
“We love our new baby puppy but all the very specific care, training, and pet insurance involved knocked us a bit sideways.”
“Dealing with an older dog is like dealing with a teenager! It’s a constant power struggle!”
I get you – you want to be a fur parent that is 100% committed to making the most out of your relationship with your new dog. To get to a point where you enjoy having your new dog with you, making sure you’re a match matters.
To help you become a loving dog parent ready for the punches of dog ownership, here are some things to consider.
Is Your Home Ready for The Dog of Your Choice?
Do you have expensive furniture that might be susceptible to scratches, biting, and nibbling? Do dogs have a kennel both indoors and outdoors? Do you have carpeted floors that might be hard to clean once your dogs start staying on them?
Since your home is also your dog’s new home, you have to check if your house is ready to become a puppy home (the rowdiness of puppies included!) and the quirks of adult dogs.
Does Your Lifestyle Support All The Care Needed for The Age Group You Prefer?
Dogs from younger age groups can demand for your attention all the time. Since they’re building habits, your presence is crucial.
When you consider the first weeks as the perfect age to adopt a puppy, you have to be on board with all the training and socialization period that come with that stage.
A nine-to-five job or a very fast-paced lifestyle may mean that caring for very little puppies may not be in the cards now.
Are You Ready to Commit Into Different Training Methods Suited for Your Pet?
If you are ready to get the wheels running for your dog’s training – even if it’s time-consuming – then you are capable of caring for younger dogs.
However, if minimal training is what you can offer right now, consider adopting adult dogs or mature senior dogs.
In this next part, I’m going to share different age groups of dogs you can adopt, their benefits, challenges, and what you can do to make your journey with the new dog of your choice as positive as possible.
Cute Little Puppies: 8-12 Weeks (Equivalent to Baby Stage)
Fluffy, chunky, and cute all the way, baby puppies are irresistible – it’s like having a new baby in the house. Puppies look like little angels, so there’s a common assumption that adopting and caring for them will be easy peasy.
Most people think that the best age to get a dog is between 8 and 12 weeks of age as a puppy, but I don’t think that’s always the case. Depending on your environment, a puppy might in fact be a bad choice for your home or lifestyle.
During this crucial time, it’s imperative that puppies learn the basics of potty training, get enough socialization period, and bond with you in their new puppy home.
Like any other age group, adopting a new puppy comes with its unique set of pros and cons. Here are some things to keep in mind if you’re planning for new puppy adoption.
The Best Age to Adopt a Puppy
Eight weeks is the best age to adopt a puppy. You don’t want to take a puppy away from the mother any earlier or it can have negative effects on the puppy’s health, mental state and happiness. Puppies learn a lot from their mothers – it’s essential that they get the most out of their time with mum before you take over!
Researchers and dog trainers also suggest adopting a puppy before they turn 7 weeks results in pets showing behavior problems over time.
Certainly, there are specific circumstances where you may be required to take home a new puppy earlier than 8 weeks, like the mother is sick, she cannot look after the puppies or the puppies were abandoned. In which case, it’s ok to step in and help out.
Just remember that in most cases, 8 weeks is the magic number for adopting a puppy. You can supplement their training with a guide that can make the puppy life breezy for you.
The good thing about getting a puppy at this age is you can bond with him very easily. Most puppies learn quickly – they will see you almost taking over that role as being their mother so they’ll instinctively bond with you.
Establishing the bond early also allows you to imprint habits that will make your new puppy parenthood easier.
Not to mention that during this age, cuddles with your new puppy are always available.
Another benefit of adopting a puppy is that at this age your new puppy doesn’t need a lot of exercising or walking.
The Challenges of New Puppy Adoption
Before a new puppy hits the two-month age milestone, he will have little to no control over his bodily functions. He’s also too young to be trained to use the bathroom outside, which makes for a big mess.
This is something you don’t want to have to deal with. If you’re still in the decision-making stage, this fact should be a major player in determining the best age to adopt.
At the age of 8 weeks, it’s possible that an active puppy might need to go out every 20 minutes when you first start potty training. That’s a huge time commitment and tricky to achieve if you are at work from 8 a.m. till 6 p.m. 5 days a week.
The good news is that, as every week goes by, your new puppy will be able to hold his bladder for a longer period of time. But, the first few weeks are always draining–much like having a brand-new baby that depends on you 24/7.
When left alone for too long, your puppy could miss out on a lot of socialization period and training.
Adopting a Puppy: Redefining Expectations
I think the biggest reason and mistake that people make with getting a new puppy at this age is that they think if they adopt a puppy at such a young age, it won’t end up with behavioral issues, which is completely nonsense.
After all, every adult dog which has behavioral issues was once a puppy!
Think about it this way…
Very few children come out of the womb with serious behavioral issues. It’s not until they become toddlers, teenagers, or adults that behavioral issues (bullying, drug use, gambling) begin to develop.
The point is that getting a puppy is not a guarantee that you will avoid the dramas that many dog owners experience later on!
If you adopt a puppy, you can enroll him into training programs early in an effort to prevent as many bad behaviors from developing. So, if you want to make sure your new puppy gets started on the right foot, enroll him in a good puppy training program.
I’m not just talking about puppy classes because again, most puppies or dogs, which have behavioral issues, went to puppy classes, but there was something missing.
I’ve put together a complete puppy training program that can help if you prefer to adopt a puppy. If you’re interested, click here and have a look.
Curious Puppies: 13 Weeks to 6 Months (Equivalent to Kindergarten/ Toddler Stage)
When puppies get better footing, the age of exploration begins.
With older puppies, you will notice that they are more active, adventurous, playful, and have somehow picked up quirks during the early weeks of their lives. Endless running and tackling of stuff define this age.
The middle name of older puppies is fun! They are not as vulnerable as newborn pups, so playtime is levelled up at this age.
Though they might have missed the early potty training and needed socialization period, this age still offers enough time to catch up on potty training, and other habits they need to learn. Older puppies can absorb training like a sponge.
I’ve put this stage in here because the puppy is obviously far more confident. This is when the little puppies start testing boundaries and start spreading their wings so to speak. In other words, it’s the time when puppies start getting into everything.
In this stage, there are a lot more challenging behaviors including biting and mouthing due to puppy teething.
What You Can Do
At this stage I encourage you to check out my program that has supported pet owners and dogs navigate through difficult behavioral problems. The program will teach you everything you need to help your dog calm down and listen to you so that they will follow your direction when it matters most!
For example about 13 to 16 weeks, you would want to put a stop on all of that mouthing and biting side of things due to puppy teething. It’s vital that you work hard during this time to teach your puppy that biting is not appropriate.
To help your pup out, provide a mix of both hard toys she can really chew and softer soothing toys that she can sink her teeth into so you avoid ending up with bite marks on your hands and arms.
The good news is that mouthing and biting shouldn’t really carry on past 16 weeks. 16 weeks is where I say there is zero biting tolerance.
These weeks are an important time to lay the groundwork for training as they are the formative stage of the puppy’s life. This is when the puppy is learning a lot of basic rules about life including what they are and aren’t allowed to do.
During this time, the puppy needs to learn about consequences and consistency.
If your puppy doesn’t have boundaries(and how to behave around cars, how to behave around people, how to behave around other dogs etc.), he’ll begin to believe that he’s in charge and can do what he wants!
It’s an incredibly important stage that needs to be taken seriously.
The downside of this stage is that if you don’t have the time or the knowledge of what’s going on, things can go very wrong that can stress both you and your puppy out. It can be very stressful because the puppy kind of changes quite quickly.
Worst of all, if your puppy becomes too confident and doesn’t have a solid training foundation in place, he can put himself into dangerous situations due to not being obedient and listening.
If you sense things going wrong during this age then it’s a great age to jump in quickly and put a comprehensive training program in place as soon as possible before things get really tricky.
The good news is that with a good training program most people do manage to stay on top of things at this early stage of puppyhood, which is great.
At this age, training is still not as tricky as the next age group, which we’re going to talk about next.
Juvenile Dogs: 6 Months to 2 years (Equivalent to Child/ Teenage Years)
During your trip to one of the pet stores, you fell in love with an adolescent dog. This is where a new puppy sort of turns into a teenager and exhibits behavior problems. Check this out…
18 months very, very roughly translate to about 18-years-old. That’s because every year of a human year is approximately 7 dog years. But, here’s the thing…the first year counts double. So, at the end of your first year, it’s almost like your dog is now a 14-year-old dog. He is a teenager at one year old!
And by the time they are 2 years old they are closer to being a 21-year-old, and if you can remember what you were like at 21, then it probably explains a lot!
That should explain to a lot of people why things often go wrong around this age – something to remember if you consider this age as the best age to adopt a puppy.
The teething stage – one that tests the patience of pet owners – is coming to a close. Around this age, adolescent dogs tend to be quicker in picking up training points.
In his adolescent stage, your furbaby will have improved in potty training, house training, walking and exercising, and his needs aren’t as immediate as that of a little puppy.
The third stage is where the puppy stops being a puppy and becomes a dog. It can be a very testing time.
To give you an idea of how tricky this period can be for dog owners, I’d say about 60% of my one-on-one clients that I work with have a dog between the age of a year and 18 months. This is when the dog starts to think, “Hey, human…you don’t know what you’re doing. Why should I listen to you? I think I know better.”
Then, the dog starts to do what she wants to do, which is, “Hey, I’d bark at the postman.” “Hey, I come when I want to come.” “Hey, I like to jump on other dogs and do my own thing.” “I jump on the couch.” She will try and wind you up a little bit.
So, in a way this can be a very, very trying and tricky stage. These adolescent dogs push the boundaries, and they test everything to the absolute limit.
What You Can Do
However, if you know what you’re doing, you will find this as the most enjoyable stage.
Why? Because this is the stage when you know what you’re doing, you can win the dog’s mind…and I’m not talking about dog training. I’m talking about how to impress the dog, how to keep the dog calm so he’s not reactive and impulsive and he’s not overly emotional.
He’s listening to you.
He’s focused on you.
If you know how to get that bit right, then it’s a very enjoyable stage because this is the very, very important stage where you’re actually training the dog.
So, with a bit of knowledge, it can be extremely exciting and fun. You’re watching your dog basically spread his wings and fly. If you’ve got the foundation in place, then the rest of it follows on quite nicely. However, if you don’t know what you’re doing, this can be a tricky stage to get a dog.
Anyone getting a dog at this stage of life who is not that confident about what they are doing should certainly get a solid understanding of what a dog really needs, mentally as well as physically. And if you are not sure what I mean by that, I am talking about them needing strong leadership and loving guidance while they find their feet in this human world that they are entering.
If you end up adopting a dog in this age range, I highly recommend that you check out my program called The Dog Calming Code! It will certainly help you get started out on the right “paw” while training your dog.
Dogs that are between two to four years old fall under the adult category. At this age, dogs have peaked in their physical strength and energy (take note, I am not including maturity).
At two, your dog’s age is equivalent to twenty-one years old. Adult dogs are often more mellow and low-maintenance than puppies with a huge burst of energy. This is the best age to adopt a puppy for people who can’t always do round-the-clock care for pets.
Think of it this way…
When your child reaches 21 years, if you have got things right and gotten a bit lucky, you would like to think that you can start taking it a bit easier and start relaxing with your child. Hopefully they are starting to mellow.
They’re not so fueled, highly charged and volatile. They’ve got a bit of a grasp of how this whole life thing works, and it’s like that with dogs.
I believe this can be one of the most enjoyable stages of owning a dog.
If you’d love the companionship of a dog but don’t have the energy for a puppy, dog rescue shelters are full of old dogs who fall in this age category that would make incredible pets!
The other great thing about this age is it’s much easier to see their true personality than it is when they are older. The same way that it’s harder to see the personality of a young baby compared to a young adult. As they become older their personality and behavior become more obvious and apparent.
Adult dogs needing a new home could have been exposed to poor training and difficult circumstances.
You might get a loud barking dog at night because her previous owner didn’t train her. They can also be extremely housetrained.
Older dogs might exhibit food aggression simply because they were neglected for so long.
When you adopt an older dog, retraining and reinforcement are sometimes necessary. Fortunately, older dogs are darlings when it comes to picking up good habits, compared to adolescent pups.
What You Can Do
If you’re thinking of getting a dog you may wish to consider one that is in this age category. Simply head off to an animal rescue center and see if there are any mild-mannered dogs that you resonate with. Take one for a walk, see how the dog acts and responds to you. If he bonds with you, the chances are he could be a good match.
If he doesn’t show any obvious behavioral issues and there are no behavioral issues remarked by the animal rescue center, that dog might be the one for you.
No dog is going to be perfect, but then again my dogs aren’t perfect, neither are my kids, nor my wife, nor myself for that matter… So don’t set the bar too high!
If they seem balanced and calm and ready, then what a wonderful opportunity to give that dog a chance of a real life.
My program, The Dog Calming Code, is still a great option for adult dogs if you find yourself running into any training or obedience problems.
Mature Senior Dogs
During a shelter or animal rescue group trip, check for mature senior dogs who are ready to be adopted. Unlike puppies who always catch the attention of dog owners, old dogs don’t always take the spotlight. Some people don’t know that senior dogs can actually be the choice that fits their lifestyle.
Since senior dogs are grown, you will already have an idea about important info such as personality, and grooming preferences which makes it easy for you to decide which senior dog matches your family and lifestyle.
Adult senior dogs are also more chill and less destructive. These dogs are generally calmer, and are already way past their rowdy, challenging stage. They are way easier to take care of over puppies, all thanks to the fact that they require less supervision.
They’re far more relaxed.
They know how life works.
They’re set in their routine, and they don’t need much looking after.
They are the perfect age if you’re that sort of person who is busy at work and doesn’t have that much time, but would love some company.
Most shelters are full of wonderful, older dogs that need a loving home to spend their golden years in.
As you may know, I’ve got a dear old dog I call Peanut. She’s 12 years old and is absolutely adorable. She tends to be really focussed on three key events each day now… She likes her daily cuddles, lots of sleep and she likes to eat!
Well, that’s not true…
She also likes to do a little playing on the beach each day, but that’s a bit of take-it-or-leave-it.
From experience, I can tell you that senior dogs are easy to look after. And they’re also so sweet and loving. They’re just so grateful, I think, for being looked after, for being cared for.
Older dogs tend to come in with more serious health concerns compared to their younger counterparts.
Some common elderly dog issues include:
- Hearing and vision loss
- Heart Problems
- Kidney issues
There’s always the risk of your senior dog getting themselves entangled in health challenges that would require constant monitoring and visits to the vet.
What You Can Do
If you’re looking for that sort of company, then this is a wonderful stage. Visit your local rescue or shelter and check for geriatric dogs that you feel a connection with.
In a way they’re the best, easiest dogs to care for of all because they also don’t need 3 or 4-kilometer runs every day. Just a couple of hundred meters on the beach is good enough for most dogs. They make wonderful companions and don’t ask for much.
Of course all of this is a very rough guide to how dogs behave and like people they can vary considerably! I have mates who are in their early 30’s who are slowing down taking it easy and very immature and others who are in their 60’s who are still whooping it up, getting out and about and squeezing the most out of life!
Age is just a number, and it’s true if you’re in the process of finding the next dog to bring to your home. Hopefully, my input can serve as a guide to help you make an ideal choice. A well informed pet owner who knows their responsibilities and expectations will fall in love with a dog – no matter how old they are – because they’re ready.
Best of luck as you pursue adding a new furry family member to your home!
All the best and have a great day
~Doggy Dan 🙂
P.S If you need help training your dog, and are looking for that “Comprehensive dog or puppy training program” that I have mentioned a few times throughout this blog then check out The Dog Calming Code for all the tools, tips, and resources you need now!